If you are not already, boys might consider becoming a “high-value” young man. High-value men are more desirable in friendships and romantic relationships.
One trait of a high-value man is confidence in himself and knowing what he wants in life. He shows up for the emotional needs of his romantic partner and friends. He is emotionally susceptible and doesn’t exclude his lover or friends. He is kind to and respects most everyone including people different from him. He is a devout and ardent (dedicated) protector of loved ones, not putting them in harm’s way. If you are close to a high-value man, he makes you a priority, and if you need help, he’s right there. He aspires to accomplish important things in his life and doesn’t let setbacks or hurdles stop him. He is sure of himself and doesn’t need to substantiate (demonstrate) it. He transforms his anger into productive purposes and avoids hurting people or doing something he shouldn’t because he is angry and his feelings are strong. He is wise with money, not wasting it, and lives within his means (income and resources). He respects others’ limits and refrains from doing things his associate’s dislike. One very important trait of a high-value man is honesty. He strives to improve every day and never gives up. He dresses very nicely and takes very good care of his outward self, presenting himself using a high standard. He is giving; he praises others, helps others when he can, and will go out of his way to do so. He is very happy around the people he cares about and makes others happy. He is very reliable; if he can’t help as he promised, he’ll let you know as soon as possible. He tells jokes without hurting people’s feelings. He is submissive to some people and takes advice and guidance from them. He is all ears. He pays attention when people are talking to him and converses (talks) well. They use their imagination and aspire to help make the world a better place. He stands tall despite any obstacles he faces. He is attracted to people who are not pessimists and are inclined to advance in their lives.
Any young man can become a high-value man if they are determined and tenacious (“continuing despite difficulties, opposition, or discouragement,” https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tenacious )